|My lesbian friend is sleeping over at my house..I am a girl?|
My friend from California is planning on sleeping over in the summer. She just came out as a lesbian to me so that I don't feel uncomfertable when she sleeps over. It doesn't make a difference whether she is a lesbian or straight, honestly, but this is still an interesting situation. i just want to know if any of you have been in this situation and if it made a difference in the sleepover. Thanks :)
|yes, i have.|
its truly no different then how it used to be before she came out to me!
i mean, just because shes attracted to girls. doesnt mean shes attracted to every girl! im glad, you dont look at her differently. and you are still her friend! she needs it(:
|I am a lesbian; but I have absolutely no interest in sleeping with women. How do I define myself?|
I have no interest in sleeping with men either, because I am a lesbian; but the thought of sleeping with women doesn't appeal to me. I love looking at women. I am attracted to women. I am not attracted to men; but the thought of having sex with a woman doesn't strike my fancy. Anyways I was just wondering how I would define myself.
Go have sex with a woman and then ask the question again.
|What do lesbians consider sleeping together?|
I'm a perfectly straight female, but the other night I had a lesbian couple over, and we watched "The L word"?? One of the questions posed was "What constitutes two lesbians sleeping together?". Like when a lesbian says, "We slept together." What does that mean? Foreplay, penetration, etc? I always wondered EXACTLY what that means, but I didn't want to offend them by being waaaay too personal just to satisfy my curiousities....
|They define it differently. Some lesbians I know consider sex to be an act where all people involved orgasm. Some consider it to be oral sex, tribalism (grinding) or "strap on" sex. Others think of it as being intimate and only consider sex to be when all of those involved are nude and are doing something sexual (like fingering). |
Penetration is not the definition for sex for lesbian couples.
|Sleeping with a girl am i a lesbian ?|
I sleep with a girl for the first time in my life, I've always dated men but i just wanted to try it, but now i like it, im attracted to females i think there so sexy, does that make me a lesbian ?
|Is it okay for non-lesbian bffs to spoon while sleeping?|
It just grosses me out, I was thinking if its normal.
Btw, I'm the kind of person who definitely thinks hugs are reserved for close friends only.
|I'm with you. Ugh.|
|Am i in the wrong if she's the lesbian sleeping with men?|
I've been talking to a girl for about 3 months now. We met last year at college and now she goes to the college i no longer go to but my problem is its long distance, and ill be away for two months and she doesnt wanna do the distance thing on top of not talking for 2 months while im gone. But i found out from a mutual friend that tonite she's going out with a GUY! she's a self proclaimed lesbian and is still closeted but has come out as such to 3 ppl, two of which are my very close friends and we all feel lied to and that we cant trust her and support her if she's going to say she's a lesbian then yell at me for calling into question her saying "who said im not into guys?!" after several long discussions stating just that? it's a long story but i'm so confused. am i in the wrong? do we not have a right to be upset and feel lied to?
|She sounds like a lying whore and i'd be mad too.|
|Do lesbians try sleeping with men at least once?|
I don't want to be rude at all but I have a couple lesbian friends (I am straight) and I'm curious about something - do most lesbians experiment with men but find it unfulfilling? Cause "doing it" with a man feels so so so unbelievably good. I am not bashing anyone's lifestyle but the male & female forms are meant to "fit" together just in a technical sense. How do lesbians know they won't like it unless they try it? Again no disrespect just curiosity. Thanks!
|Because they aren't attracted to me man, emotionally and/or sexually to sleep with them in the first place. I'm not going to go out and find a man and have sex with him simply because i haven't tried it and i don't know if i will like it not. How do you know you wont like sleeping with a women? If you haven't tried it....|
|Married gal with 4 guys sleeping with a lesbian?????|
I have a lesbian friend, she's hanging out and sleeping together with this married gal with 4 guys. This married girl come over to the apartment were staying (i do rent a room), and sometimes leave her house for 2 days. I pity her husband who is airforce and dont know whats goin on.
She is aware that she have a great life. I dont know what is missing she is longing to a lesbian, but I heard from her shes having a wonderful life. Im a mom, so I feel so very bad to her coz of the guys. My lesbian friend and her were like enjoying their "monkey" business...it seems that they dont want to listen to us if we talk to them to stop.
What to do now?
|someone needs to tell her husband so he can divorce her..she is mentally ill and the guyren need to be removed from her also|
|Would a lesbian sleep with a man?|
She obviously realised she was a lesbian one day, but is it possible for a woman to decide she's no longer a lesbian. Is this experimentation based on urges to and strong feelings for a person.
|I think that everyone is attracted to everyone in one form or fashion and if they say they aren't then they are lying. If I want dick I go get it if I want p*ssy I go get it. So why not.|