Is sex with black men that much diffrent than others or is it just a hype? I am in my mid 30's and been hearing that sex with black men is so much better than other races, i wanted to know if there is any truth to that. I am not saying in any shape or form that sex with all other races is bad or less erotic, what i want to know is that if any one like me was curiouse and tried it? What was their experience? I am thinking that it is a hype! But i like to be sure! |
It's mostly hype. Men are men and a man being good in bed goes way beyond his skin color. So many factors determine how and why we are attracted to a person, that it's impossible to say. Some women might feel this way while others might feel the opposite or feel neutral.
Every human being has qualities they find attractive. Being turned on can make sex even better. So if you happen to find a black guy who is handsome, sweet and sensitive to a woman's needs and otherwise a good match for you then YES, sex could very well be great! Just like in any other group though, good and bad men exist and so do good and bad lovers!
I have dated men of all races and found it just depends on the person! Some people you will get along with, others you won't. I do happen to find many black men physically attractive but as for the sex and the relationship, again it just depends on the guy! Beautiful men come in all colors and so do sexy ones!
As for ME, I have had some good experiences with black men and some not so good when it comes to sex. I DO tend to find black men beautiful (and black people in general) and I will always love looking at them. Here are some of the qualities I liked about the particular black men I have dated. This is not a stereotype and doesn't apply to all black men, it's just the things I have encountered:
1) The bodies. It's no secret. Many black men have nice, strong looking bodies. This can be a huge turn on. Not all are like this but a good number are, even if they don't work out! They tend to have broad shoulders, arched lower backs and high rounded butts too....Mmmm....
2) They like to flirt. When a woman drops a hint that she is into a guy, black men pick up on it right away. Sometimes Latin and Italian men are this way too for whatever reason. Some white men miss subtle hints, black men almost ALWAYS 'get it' when a lady is into them and if they are interested too, they are quick to respond. I have not met many black men who play games. If they like a woman they are pretty direct about it and not shy about asking her out!
3) Good grooming habits. I never dated a nasty, smelly black guy. I am sure they exist but it's rare. Notice something: Both rich and poor black guys are usually into their appearance to some degree. They are meticulous about their hair, their clothing and cleanliness. I am not sure why this is, it's just something I have noticed in the ones I dated.
4) Black people are beautiful. It's s sad that so many black celebrities bleach and butcher their natural beauty to look more 'white' because most were beautiful to begin with! Many have beautiful broad, flat noses, full soft lips, curly hair and silky-smooth brown skin. This is what a person of African descent is SUPPOSED to look like! It's a shame so many (male and female) don't understand how striking their natural beauty is and how many white people happen to think so! If you are someone who happens to think black is beautiful then you may very well find you enjoy sex with them more!
So if you are curious, why not date a black guy? The only way to know for sure is to try. Lots of women are into black men so there must be a reason! Best of luck and Happy Hunting! |
Do white men and black men view sex differently? It seems that in literature, songs, movies and pornography (all of which can be biased), black men have more of a desire to dominate women and walk away while white men are "wimpier" and can become clingy. Black men seem to view women as objects more than white men as well. This really isn't meant to be an attack or racist, I just wanted some opinions. I understand it ultimately comes down to the individual. |
Yes! Culturally speaking, black men view sex and women very different from white men. One must remember that blacks originated from Africa which is a Eastern culture. Eastern cultures view women as objects, servants, slaves. In fact, many African cultures believe in female mutilation and they cut out some of the woman's God given sex organs in order to keep her subservient and degraded. African girls are often married at extremely young ages, even before they reach sexual maturity. The men have more than one wife, and the women have no rights. Although blacks came to the West as a result of slavery, black people have retained many of their African roots and beliefs, and this is what you see been reflected in the media. It's sad, but true.
As for white men, I'm on the outside looking in, but it seems that they have more respect for their women because their women have more respect for themselves. While I do believe that white women believe in respecting their men, they don't put their men on pedestals the way black women do. Many of the rights that I enjoy as a woman in America came because some white woman stood up and fought against some sort of sexist injustice. My basic point: the white community puts its women on a pedestal. The white community has treated her in such a way that men from other races fantasize about her because she represents a status symbol/ trophy/prize.
However, the black community puts its men on a pedestal. That's why more and more black men refuse to work and depend on the female to support them, among other atrocities that I won't list here.
Of course, not all black men do this. There are some black men who strive to be faithful to their wives, contribute to their families and community, and are hard working and law abiding. Unfortunately, those black men are few and far between. |
Why are some women addicted to sex with black men? I know of some women that are addicted to sex with black men, it seems like they dont really care about anything else! As long as the guys are STD free, they cant wait to sleep with them, in some cases have thresomes and such. I want to know if this is a addiction or just a way to pleasure ones self? And why are they only addicted to black men?? I dont personally think sex with blacks or whites are any diffrent, so where does this addiction come from?? |
| They're probably addicted to sex but are very much more attracted to black men. It's just a personal preference. (They may not even be addicted to sex they might just like it a lot for good reasons lol. |
Why are black men viewed as sex objects? PLEASE don't report this question, i really would like to know. it seems that single white women and married couples of the caucasion nationality are always posting personal ads on websites trying to hook up with BBC it means BIG BLACK ....... but i never see them (the single women) attempting to have a relationship with the black man. why are black men viewed as sex objects? any opinion is welcome. i just am curious PLEASE don't report this question. |
I know plenty of black men in relationships, with black and non-black women, so apparently many women DO have relationships with black men.
Some people like the idea of having sex with someone who is different than they are...different skin color, body type, ethnicity, etc. There's a mystery about it and an adventure. It's not just black men that are sought after though....but there is the myth that black males have large penii so some people still want to see if that is true.
I'm white and my lover is black. I don't see him as a sex object. I see him as a man I'm crazy about and want in my life for so much more than sex. It's his choice not to share more than my bed right now. ☺♥☻ |
How come so many white women prefer black men when it comes to sex? I know most white women marry white men.
But a lot of my white girl friends and classmates (college) prefer black men when it comes to sex. |
| don't know but there are a lot women who buy black vibrators and dildo's.... |
To all white women that have had sex with black men, was it all that? My best friend is having an affair with a very handsome black gentlemen and she tells me that it is the best sex she ever had. She also says that she cannot stop, she is addicted to him.
Is this a high percentage of black men that are great lovers or about equal to white men in which experience is maybe 50% of them are great lovers and the other 50% are terrible. |
well i was single at the time young and foolish and just wanted fun, yeah i slept with a black guy but it wasn't all that i would say average which in my book is good enough for me.
but i grew common sense after and didn't see him again ,lol |
Why do white women prefer black men when it comes to sex? I know. Most white women marry white men. NAturally of course.
But most of my white girl friends and classmates (college) prefer black men when it comes to sex. |
its your opinion. What extra black man has which white man do not posses?
Girls only need a person for having sex. It does not matter whether he is black or white. |
Why do I get turned on fantasizing about my wife having sex with black men? I have fantasized about this for several years now, and I get just as turned on now as I did in the beginning! If it come down to really watching it happen though, I don't think that it would be as exciting! |
I think every husband out there fantasize about a well endowed gentlemen out there. If she gets off with just your normal size thing, imagine how far she will go with a big one.
Don't destroy your marriage like this! If she is not comfortable at all with this and you force this upon her she may divorce you in a heartbeat. Things like this may back fire into your relationship. Some people say this will either strengthen your marriage or destroy it!
Please respect your one and only beautiful sexy hot wife. If she agrees upon this, then you are the luckiest man in the world to have a wife like that, because not very many wives can go thru such things like this. Its a horrible feeling, worst nightmare for some wives out there. |
Any gay black men looking for sex with a white guy? Im looking to try having sex with a black man for the 1st time..i want to be on bottom and im lookin for someone who will do it right and good |
| I'm sure there's a couple. This is not the place to find them though... |
In what sport are black men more successful having sex with white women? If we can be mature for a second and recognize the fact that success with white women is a driving
motivator for most black men, (I am black, btw) what sport do you think offers them the most opportunity?
Based on the exploits of Wilt Chamberlain and other NBA stars, I think the NBA stars are the
most successful. I don't think any other sport even comes close. Black baseball and football players
don't have any particular advantage, do they? |
| I would say football because they make loads of money |